Black Men Have Questions.. And We Got Answers
Ladies, how many times has your man asked why you have 13 different conditioners in the bathroom? Or why you need 7 butters and 5 oils on hand at all times? Well my husband asked me these questions, so I assume that your man has asked you as well.
Dear Black Man, you got with a kinky natural. The following items a will always be needed.
- A spray bottle
Our kinks need constant moisture. You may see us add things to this bottle, don’t be alarmed..secretly all black woman are chemist.
- A good butter /Hair Milk
I mean, just because we have a closet full of Cantu, Shea Moisture, Mane Choice,TGIN, ORS Doesn’t mean we don’t need a good butter or milk to make our kinks soft and shiny. And if you didn’t buy that brotha , see the answer for # 1
- Good Oils
Not all naturals use oils in their routine, and to each his own. But my 4C low porosity hair needs oils hunty! Now true enough I was that chick with so many oils I could have opened a holistic shop(this is why I started making Hair Crack Oil ) but I am a L.O.C kind of natural.
- A Conditioner with slip
OMG .. I can not stress this enough , especially if you are a finger detaingler (non comb user). With a good conditioner you should be able to glide thru those kinks like butter. Less breakage less single strand knots.
- A Deep Conditioner
Okay, yes we have 6 of them , but they all do certain things. This one has biotin, this one is for wash and go’s, this one is for two strand twist, this one is for winter , this one is for summer , this one adds protein. Look boo, our hair go’s thru a lot daily so we need a lot of stuff okay..
- At least 4 Silk Scarfs
We know we came to bed looking like Harriett Tubman, but trust us we need this. Don’t you think every now and then we don’t want to enter the room like Beyonce, stands tussled yet still somehow perfectly in place? (All Hail The Queen Bey).
Sorry bro , We ain’t got that kind of hair . But when the kids go to sleep, Imma put this lace front on and make it do what it do! #rocket